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Delivering sex and relationships education

Talk Relationships supports all UK secondary schools to confidently deliver inclusive sex and relationships education.

NSPCC want all young people across the UK to understand healthy behaviours in relationships and recognise their right to be safe, heard and respected. And they want them to know how to get help from a trusted adult if they need it.

A series of lesson plans have been created by sex and relationships education experts from the PSHE Association and the NSPCC.

Ages 11-12

The three Talk Relationships lessons for 11 and 12-year-olds cover how to deal with changes to friendships, what healthy relationships look like and how to respond to hurtful behaviour.

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Changing Friendships Looks at the nature of friendships and how they change as young people go through transitions. It enables young people to see the benefits and opportunities of forming new friendships, and to manage these changes in a safe and healthy way.

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Healthy Online Friendships Covers the differences between online and offline friendships, and ways to manage healthy friendships online. Explores some of the potential risks and benefits of communicating with others online, including as part of online forums and groups.

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Hurtful Behaviour Explores the right everyone has to be treated with respect, the nature of gender-based hurtful behaviour and what is acceptable and unacceptable. Considers how young people can respond and challenge hurtful behaviours and where to get support if needed.

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Accompanying Teaching Guidances Notes

Ages 12 - 14

The six Talk Relationships lessons for 12- to 14-year-olds cover topics including what healthy relationships look like, how to respond to sexualised media, sexual harassment and harmful sexual behaviour.

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Healthy Relationships Provides information on the features of a healthy relationship and helps pupils to recognise the differences between healthy and unhealthy relationship behaviours.

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Sexualised Media Analyses how young people and their relationships are portrayed through the media, including the increased sexualisation of media content, and the impact this can have on expectations and stereotypes relating to gender and relationships.

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Safer Online Relationships Explores how young people can keep themselves, and their personal information safe while online, particularly developing relationships through social media.

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Sexual Harassment and Harmful Sexual Behaviour Explores the concerns raised by sexual harassment and harmful sexual behaviours in all its forms. It empowers young people with ways to manage, resist or challenge these behaviours, including seeking help.

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Consent Focuses on issues relating to consent within relationships and equips young people with the knowledge and skills they will need to keep themselves and others safe.

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Sharing Nudes Explores the impact of non-consensual image sharing and supports young people to manage requests to share explicit images.

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Accompanying Teaching Guidances Notes

Ages 14 - 16

The four Talk Relationships lessons for 14- to 16-year-olds cover topics including rights, trust and values, communication and readiness, and pornography.

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Rights, Trust and Values Provides information about the features of healthy relationships, including respecting peoples’ rights, personal boundaries and seeking support.

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Communication and Readiness Explores how young people can assess readiness for different ways of expressing intimacy and how this can be communicated.

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Unhealthy Relationships Looks at the features of unhealthy relationships, the effects of abusive behaviours and how young people can access support.

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Pornography Explains what pornography is and how this can distort a young person’s expectations of themselves, other people and relationships

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Accompanying Teaching Guidances Notes

For more information, visit the NSPCC Talk Relationships website. 



Tagged under: KS3&4, healthy relationships, Sexual Behaviour, harassment, Nudes, consent, online, Sexualised, friendships, pornography, unhealthy relationships, communication, Ages 11-12, Ages 12-14, Ages 14-16